An anonymous social media user has shared a troubling story about his relationship, seeking advice on whether to continue with his girlfriend after discovering she has been stealing money from him. The post details his growing concerns and the recent events that have led him to question the integrity of his partner.
“I met this girl two months ago, but anytime she visits, I realize my money has been stolen,” he wrote. Initially, he did not confront her, hoping it was a misunderstanding. However, his suspicions were confirmed during her last visit.
“Last week, she visited and was in a hurry to leave. I gave her some money, and after she left, I realized more money was taken from my bag. I called her several times, but she didn’t pick up. Later, when I asked her, she admitted she took it without asking me,” he explained. The man had counted his money before her visit, confirming the theft.
He confronted her and asked her to return the money, but she said she had already spent it. “I asked her to send it back, but she said she has spent it. Like how? Hmm,” he added, expressing his frustration and disbelief.
The man is now questioning whether he should continue the relationship or if this behavior is a significant red flag. “Should I continue with this relationship, or is it a red flag because I don’t get it?” he asked.
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“Keep me anonymous I met this gal last 2 months but anytime she visits I realize my money has been stolen but I don’t take notice of it so last week she visited and she was in haste to go so I gave her money and she left after that I realize my money was taken from my bag and I called her several times but she didn’t pick up later B4 I ask her and she said she took it without asking me so the money I gave her was little n I ask her to send it back ? Should I continue with this relationship or is a red flag bcos I don’t get it TG I counted the money that day I called her to send the money back she said she has spent it like how hmm.”