A married man has taken to social media to express his growing frustration over what he describes as his wife’s strange and passive-aggressive method of handling conflict in their home—by turning midnight prayers into personal attacks.
Rather than addressing issues face-to-face, the woman reportedly uses her prayer time as a platform to air her grievances, delivering emotionally charged messages disguised as spiritual supplications.
The man, who opted to remain anonymous, shared a recent example that left him baffled. After returning home intoxicated in the early hours of the morning, he expected a confrontation. Instead, his wife remained calm—until 12 a.m.
That night, she launched into a prayer that left little room for interpretation:
“Dear Lord, please help all men who spend their nights drinking and abandon their wives at home to change their ways.”
He claims that this pattern has become her preferred form of communication. She has even made indirect references to suspicious text messages from another woman, praying for “Mbali to stop sending seductive pictures to married men.”
According to the husband, she sometimes even uses her prayer sessions to subtly request gifts or express her desires, making it difficult for him to take her seriously. He expressed concern that if she were to ever cheat, she might confess it in one of her 12 a.m. prayer monologues.
“This feels childish,” he lamented, questioning whether such behavior was healthy for a marriage.
The post has since sparked debate online, with many offering varying takes on communication, boundaries, and the role of spirituality in modern relationships.
Source: NewsandVibes.com
