A social media post has sparked a wave of sympathy and advice after a man shared his heart-wrenching story about his wife’s affair and their ongoing fertility struggle.
In the post, the husband, who remains anonymous, revealed that he has been married for about five years and that he and his wife have been unsuccessful in their attempts to conceive. Despite undergoing medical tests that confirmed both of them are medically fit, they haven’t been able to conceive a child.
He expressed the immense pressure from his family on his wife regarding the issue. “The pressure that comes from my family to my wife is serious. At times I feel for her. It’s not her fault that she can’t get pregnant,” he wrote.
However, a few months ago, the husband discovered that his wife had been talking to another man. “My wife is actually very beautiful and young, and she’s so desperate to get a child. Their chats suggest that they are sleeping together,” he explained.
Just a month ago, his wife took a pregnancy test, and it came back positive. Despite this, the husband didn’t react the way she expected.
“She doesn’t know I know she’s having an affair. I truly love my wife, and I’m very hurt, but I want to take my time before I mess things up. This baby could either be mine or the other guy’s. What do I do? Should I let her know that I’m aware, or I should keep quiet and let her give birth first, go for a DNA, and decide from the results whether I should divorce her or not.”
See post and reactions from netizens:
“I’ve been married for about 5 years now. Me and my wife have tried all means to get pregnant but none has worked. The pressure that comes from my family to my wife is serious. At times I feel for her. It’s not her fault that she can’t get pregnant. Medically, we’ve both been proven to be alright but still. A few months ago I realized my wife has been talking to a certain guy. My wife is actually very beautiful and young and she’s so desperate to get a child. Their chats suppose that they are sleeping together. Just a month ago my wife took a pregnancy test and it came positive. She showed it to me and I didn’t react the way she expected, you know for someone in our state. She doesn’t know I know she’s having an affair. I truly love my wife and I’m very hurt but I want to take my time before I mess things up. This baby could either be mine or the other guys’. What do I do? Should I let her know that I’m aware or I should keep quiet and let her give birth first, go for a DNA and decide from the results whether I should divorce her or not.”
DNA – Marriage matter de3 I won’t talk some
Rutherford – It could be that she has been taking pills after you have intimacy These creatures can do anything
Khatalia – First of all go for semen analysis Secondly wait until the child is born
Courage – Be patient! You know exactly what to do but you want us to confirm your decision. Marriage is painstaking so be patient let the truth unfold itself
No sugar – Wait after she gives birth then take the necessary actions.
SKD – I’ll suggest you gather evidence to prove to her that you are aware of her affair with the other guy. Let her give birth and let dna decide her fate.
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