- A male employee says his married female boss has been making sexual advances toward him.
- She asks him to do inappropriate personal tasks at work, such as helping choose underwear online.
- He’s tempted because the job pays well, but fears losing the job and disrespecting her husband.
- He has a friendly relationship with the husband, who treats him like a son, gives him money, and sometimes takes him clubbing.
- The husband reportedly tips him “3k” for accompanying him out; the employee worries about the moral and practical consequences of sleeping with his boss.
- He asked to remain anonymous and is uncertain what to do.
A man has taken to social media, asking anonymously for advice after saying his married boss has been crossing professional lines.
According to his post, the boss has repeatedly made sexual advances and even asks him to help with personal tasks—like picking lingerie during online shopping—requests he feels are inappropriate for a workplace.
He admits the job pays well and that he finds her attractive, which makes the situation tempting. At the same time, he’s worried about losing his position and about betraying the boss’s husband, who has treated him kindly.
The husband, the poster says, has a warm relationship with him—treating him like a son, giving him money, and occasionally going clubbing together while the husband is in town. The husband reportedly gives him a 3k tip for such outings.
Torn between financial incentive and conscience, the man is uncertain whether to resist the advances or give in, fearing both the personal fallout and the professional risk. He asked followers for guidance on how to handle the delicate situation.
Below is the post
“Keep me anonymous Chale my boss dey make some advances on me she dey want make | knack but i no dey want lose my job wey I dey respect ei husband cus ei dey treat me like ei son. This woman can call me to her office and tell me to help her choose panties she is buying online. Chale the job dey pay well o. Sometime am being tempted to cus you see this woman en shape err She be young too. Ei the husband dey treat me well like ei dey tip me we dey go clubbing cus more ei dey out of the country so ei drop ebi me than am naaa. At times I think of how I go feel if I do this thing. This husband dey tip me 3k just for me to take him around clubbing then I dey knack ei wife on top… Eishh!”
