A Nigerian man, Damilola Christian Amadi, has sparked controversy with a bold statement regarding married men who continue to live in their parents’ house after tying the knot.
In a post shared on his Facebook page, Amadi described such men as “lazy,” asserting that living with one’s parents after marriage is detrimental to both the man and his wife.
He pointed out the complications faced by wives who are forced to share household spaces, like the kitchen, with in-laws.
Amadi claimed that these women often need to seek permission to use basic household items, further adding to their stress.
He strongly criticized married men who burden their wives with these challenges, suggesting that the lack of independence shows a lack of responsibility.
He wrote, “You’re a very lazy person if you are married and living in your father’s house. If your wife needs anything or wants to cook, she will have to share the kitchen with your mother or take permission from her before cooking.”
This statement has ignited a heated debate online, with many agreeing and others questioning whether it’s fair to judge men in such situations without knowing their circumstances.
Some argue that cultural norms and financial factors might play a role, while others support Amadi’s view, stressing the importance of independence in marriage.
Source: NewsandVibes.com
