Man threatens to divorce wife who uses vibrator and dildo

An anonymous woman on social media has opened up about her husband’s recent behavior, which has left her feeling betrayed and confused. The strain in their relationship escalated after she discovered evidence of his infidelity and faced an unexpected confrontation over her personal choices.

For the past several months, her husband has been acting distant, citing work-related stress as the reason for his aloofness and lack of physical intimacy. Despite his assurances that he was considering a job change to alleviate his stress, his behavior raised suspicions.

“It’s been five months since he last touched me,” she said. “I felt something was off.”

Her suspicions were confirmed when she discovered messages on his LinkedIn account suggesting he was involved with another woman. When confronted, her husband vehemently denied the affair. Deciding not to press the issue further, she chose to move out of their shared bedroom and into the guest room, needing space and time to think.

“I told him I needed some space to think things through,” she explained.

The situation took a dramatic turn when she returned home from work recently to find her husband in an unusually angry state. He followed her into the room, and to her shock, confronted her with a vibrator and a dildo he had found, demanding to know why she was using them. Her response that it was none of his business infuriated him further.

“He was furious and started insulting me, saying he was ashamed of me and couldn’t continue with the marriage,” she recounted. “He accused me of choosing a dildo and vibrator over him.”

Her husband’s outburst and accusations have left her questioning her own actions and the state of their marriage. Despite his infidelity and the emotional distance he created, she is now facing blame for seeking personal solace in his absence.

“I’m asking, did I do anything wrong here?” she wondered aloud, seeking clarity and support.

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“Please keep me anonymous my husband has been acting strangely towards me offlate, so i decided to confront him and he told me its stress from work and he is even planning on searching for a new job, It’s been like 5 months now he hasn’t touched me. So just last week i found out from his linkeden account on his laptop that he has a side chic. And when i confronted him he denied, so i decided that I won’t bother him again. I packed out from our room and started sleeping in the Guest room. He asked me and i told him i needed some space and time to think through things. Just yesterday i came back from work and i met him with an angry face, and when i greeted him he didn’t respond. Since we ain’t in good terms i went inside and he followed me and when i turned to tell him to step out he showed me a vibrator and a dildo and asked who they were for i told him they were mine and he was like why im i using that i told him its none of his business, he got so furious and started talking plenty and insulting me saying that how dare me choose a dildo and vibrator over him?. He then said he is ashamed of me and can’t do this marriage again. I’m asking did i do anything wrong here?