A woman reached out on social media seeking advice about her unexpected feelings for an older man she recently met.
Despite her usual lack of interest in older men and their lack of attraction to her, she finds herself developing feelings for this man in his early fifties.
Acknowledging the significant age gap and likening him to a father figure, she expressed confusion and a desire to halt her growing emotions.
In her plea for advice, she requested respectful responses, hoping for guidance on how to navigate this unfamiliar situation.
See post and reactions:
“Guys I need some advice | met this man in his early fifties who took my number and we started talking note he’s not married but divorced l’ve never had a thing with older men before and they are not even attracted to me but in this case it’s different I think I’m starting to have feelings for this man and I don’t know how to stop it He can be my father. No insults please help me.”
Tham – Sis are you not sure you’re following money and going to give yourself a task you can’t complete. Well if he has good personality and intentions towards you and your family too will accept him then go ahead but you’re not free from the consequences of your choice Ladies sometimes when you face this kind of problems consult mum too and not only friends 🥺 All the best
Anaman – If you don’t feel bad about it then go for him If you know you’re going to text me just hi and expect a response from me note that you’ll come reply yourself
Coochie – Have fun buh be sure to confirm that he’s really divorced ✅
Oheneba – Indeed he is ur fada so rest abeg
bel – If he’s truly divorced then there’s nothing wrong with it. Age shouldn’t be problem I suppose
Precious- U naa u are saying he can be your father so why. Just shun that feelings wai. It won’t take you anywhere
Omar – No insults so…
