A woman seeks clarity on her partner’s intense devotion to football, particularly his unwavering loyalty to his favorite team, Chelsea FC. Preferring anonymity, she shares her concerns about the impact of his sports obsession on their relationship.
The woman expresses frustration over her partner’s behavior following Chelsea’s losses in matches, noting that he often withdraws communication and attention from her until the next day.
This pattern of behavior leaves her feeling neglected, insecure, and questioning the seriousness of their relationship.
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“Am i overreactng or its just a normal thing for u guys? My man is realy into football, whenever there is a match he must go en watch, especially that champion league idk, he’s a Chelsea fan since he was young, but its too much obsession with that team, whenever Chel. looses, that man would be mad at me (its a long distance) means no text or calls, i wll be ghosted till next day when he decides to text.. and u all know how may times that Ch. loses, jus like the day before yesterday, he hasnt check on my till now? It makes me sad en insecure, So, is that even serious thing,? or is jus a reason not to find me, afterll its jus soccer they wll win next time innit? And Yes, i tried to tell him how i feel about that behaviour, he blueticked the text, his friend told me “u jus dont understand football, its painful than loosng a ur love?”
