A social media post from a student, identified only as “K,” has triggered a wave of advice and sympathy after he shared his emotional story about discovering his girlfriend’s feelings for another man.
In the post, K, a fourth-year student at KNUST, revealed that he had been in a relationship with his girlfriend, a third-year student at UPSA, for nearly a year. Initially, everything seemed to be going well, except for some minor issues. “The only issues, I’d say we had, was that I love to tease, and she has insecurities, so any form of teasing kind of upsets her,” he wrote. “And when she is upset, she just ignores you for days without talking to you.”
However, K’s world was turned upside down when he stumbled upon a friend’s status post featuring his girlfriend. The friend rarely posted about women, so K became immediately suspicious. He questioned his friend, who revealed that the lady in question was his girlfriend. Confronting his girlfriend, she confessed that she likes both K and the other man.
“I was angry, surprised, and sad at the same time,” K confessed. “But I was willing to give her another chance as we’re all not perfect, but was asked for me to give her time to think about it.”
K demanded that his girlfriend block and delete the other man’s contact, or he would end the relationship. She complied, but K’s trust in her was shattered due to her hesitation.
The post has generated a significant response, with many offering their advice and sympathies.
See post and reactions:
“Hello, keep me anonymous. You can call me K. I’m a 4th-year student at KNUST, and my lady is at UPSA, in her 3rd year. So I’ve been in this relationship for almost a year now, everything was going perfectly well. The only issues, I’d say we had, was that I love to tease, and she has insecurities, so any form of teasing kind of upsets her. And when she is upset, she just ignores you for days without talking to you. My issue with this is that we’re both adults, so I feel if there is any problem we should talk about it. But that’s not the problem here. So I chanced upon a friend of mine posting my lady on his status, but this is the kind of guy who rarely posts ladies. So I immediately got suspicious when I saw it, so I texted the guy asking who that beautiful lady was to him, he said his girlfriend. So I confronted my lady about it, and what she told me was that she likes both of us. I was angry, surprised, and sad at the same time. But I was willing to give her another chance as we’re all not perfect, but was asked for me to give her time to think about it. I asked her to block and delete the guy’s contact or I break up with her. She blocked and deleted the contact. But my issue is that she hesitated, which to me broke my trust in her. Do you think I should just end things or still give her another chance? I’ll be in the comment section.”
Connie – She’s cheating already
Simple guy – she did not delete anything
Comfort – Waa see s3 she blocked and deleted. I can mention the number off head
DNA – Woman say she loves both of you and you want to stay?
Ur-wife – Your lady is not sensìble kraa. She should have dumped you way back before yall got to one year.
Luis – Another chance for liking two guys at the same time? Ma guy!
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