Woman's confession of feelings for family driver causes family issues

A 23-year-old woman finds herself at the center of a storm after confessing her feelings for the family driver, triggering a series of events that have left her distraught and her family in turmoil.

Preferring to remain anonymous, the young woman revealed her inner turmoil in a candid account of her experiences. She admitted to developing romantic feelings for the family’s young chauffeur, drawn to his handsome appearance and admired stature. However, her infatuation has collided head-on with her father’s protective instincts and stern warnings against engaging with men, leaving her torn between her heart’s desires and her father’s mandates.

“I am a 23-year-old. We have a young driver who chauffeurs my father personally because I prefer to travel alone and don’t want anyone driving me,” she confessed. “The main issue is, I have developed feelings for this driver.”

Despite her attempts to conceal her emotions, she suspects her father may have noticed her affection for the driver, exacerbated by moments of intimacy that almost led to a kiss. Even a temporary stay in Canada failed to quell her longing, prompting her to return home prematurely.

However, upon her return, she noticed a change in the driver’s demeanor, leading her to speculate whether he was in a relationship or merely intimidated by her father’s authority. Desperate to bridge the growing chasm between them, she made a bold move, confessing her feelings during an impromptu rendezvous.

“I then asked him to take me home because I was bored,” she recounted. “Upon our return, my father was at the dining table and demanded that the guy hand over his keys and leave the house.”

Her father’s swift and stern reaction left her reeling, seeking solace in her mother’s embrace as she grappled with the fallout of her impulsive actions. Despite attempts to reach out to the driver, his reluctance to engage with her has deepened her sense of regret and isolation.

“My dad believes this has been ongoing for some time and is dismayed that I disregarded his advice,” she lamented.

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“Hi, Anonymous or because this is my first time, This is my story please. I am a 23-year-old. We have a young driver who chauffeurs my father personally because I prefer to travel alone and don’t want anyone driving me. The main issue is, I have developed feelings for this driver. He is very handsome, dark-skinned, and has a stature I greatly admire. The dilemma is that my father is extremely protective and has sternly warned me to stay away from men, fearing they might harm me, hmm. I suspect my father might have noticed my affection for his driver, as I’ve been secretly admiring him, giving him gifts, and we nearly kissed sometime ago, but he left before it happened. Months ago, I was sent to Canada to visit my uncle and prepare for my master’s program, but I couldn’t stay because I missed this guy so much, his presence in our home and how i stare at him so I pleaded with my mother to speak to my father so I could return, and she did. Since my return, this guy has been distant and aloof.”

“I don’t know if he’s in a relationship or simply afraid of my father, but my feelings for him is so real. I couldn’t stand his attitude towards me any longer. A few days ago, I asked him to drive me to a restaurant in the evening, which aroused my father’s suspicion, i dont know if he was stalking us, I usually sit in the back when I need his assistance in going somewhere which doesn’t happen normally unless I’m sick and can’t drive, but this time I chose to sit in the front seat. On our way, I asked him to park, and I kissed him, confessed my feelings, but he seemed unhappy. I then asked him to take me home because i was bored, Upon our return, my father was at the dining table and demanded that the guy hand over his keys and leave the house. I rushed to my mother in tears and have not left my room since. I called the guy and sent him money and it seems he doesn’t want to talk to me, but I know I have made a grave mistake. My dad believes this has been ongoing for some time and is dismayed that I disregarded his advice. He refuses to listen to anyone not even my mother, knowing she will try to persuade him.”