- Ghanaian media personality Abena Moet has stirred controversy with claims that wives of cheating men are often the happiest.
- Speaking on GHOne TV, she argued that unfaithful husbands tend to be more attentive and transparent at home.
- Her comments were in response to fellow panelist Maame Animwaa, who insisted that forgiveness never fully restores trust.
- Moet believes cheating men go out of their way to maintain peace, especially when their mistresses are aware of their marital status.
- The discussion has reignited debates around infidelity, emotional security, and the psychology of forgiveness in relationships.
Abena Moet is no stranger to bold takes, but her latest opinion on marriage and infidelity has sparked a fresh wave of debate across Ghanaian social media. During a relationship segment on GHOne TV, the outspoken media personality claimed that wives of cheating men are often the happiest—because those men work harder to maintain peace at home.
Her argument? That unfaithful husbands, especially those whose side partners know they’re married, tend to be more transparent about their whereabouts and more intentional about keeping their homes emotionally stable. According to Moet, these men make deliberate efforts to “cool the house” before stepping out, ensuring their wives feel secure even in the face of betrayal.
The comment came in response to fellow panelist Maame Animwaa, who took a more cautious stance. Animwaa argued that forgiveness doesn’t erase suspicion, and once trust is broken, it’s never fully restored. She painted a scenario where a husband goes away for a weekend and becomes unreachable—suggesting that even if he’s innocent, the wife’s first thought would be infidelity.
Moet dismissed that fear, insisting that some women learn to live peacefully with the reality of their partner’s behavior, especially when the cheating is “managed” with honesty and routine check-ins.
The exchange has reignited long-standing conversations about emotional resilience, gender expectations, and the blurred lines between tolerance and self-deception in modern relationships. While some viewers applauded Moet’s realism, others criticized her for normalizing infidelity and undermining the emotional toll it takes on women.
As the conversation continues, one thing is clear: Abena Moet knows how to spark dialogue—and she’s not afraid to challenge conventional wisdom.
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