A 20-year-old university student shares his story of love and loss on social media, preferring to remain anonymous. He met a girl after high school, and they fell in love. He introduced her to his dad because he’s open with his family. Things were good, but he had to work while studying to support his family.
At first, their relationship was strong. They talked a lot and had a good bond. But then, things changed. She started asking for gifts all the time, even though he didn’t mind giving her things. He saved up from his job to buy her gifts and even got her an iPhone for her birthday.
He found out she was talking to another guy and telling him about their relationship. According to the girfriend, this guy was her bestfriend. When he confronted her, she got mad and said he couldn’t control her life. It got worse when he found out, his girlfriend had told her friend that she only loved him because of his calmness.
She broke up with him, leaving him heartbroken and sick. He lost his job because he couldn’t focus. Now, he’s slowly getting back on his feet by doing freelance graphic designing.
He’s not sure if he should try love again, but he wants someone to talk to.
Below are reactions from netizens:
Jucie World – Relationship will kill u guys eiii
Ghentle Rutherford – Kafra kafra You spend a lot on a girl then she decides to foòl with you
Anna – For now de3 don’t give love a chance cos u will get heartbroken again
Little Daisy – You just have to give yourself a break from relationship and focus more on yourself
Ok Boomer – How many times do we have to tell our fellow brothers that these ‘girls’ dont prefer guys who value them but rather the ones who mess with their emotions and do nothing much for them? Pray to God to provide you with a ‘girl’ who has the mindet of a ‘woman’. they are rare but not impossible for God’s delivery guys to drop one at your location. keep working hard bro and dawg that hoe.
Model Amakie – Hmmmmm…… You’d be fine okay Just let her be Karma is also watching and I promise it’d catch up quickly with her than you expect But for now, just focus on your studies and work Graduate and get a better job, you’d meet a woman with genuine love for you There’s more to life dear, just let her be
