Lady with numerous boyfriends seeks advice on how to break up with all and keep one

A 22-year-old level 300 student at a local college of education is grappling with a complex relationship dilemma that has captivated the community and sparked a lively debate on social media. The student, who wishes to remain anonymous, is torn between two boyfriends and is seeking advice on whom to settle with as she nears the completion of her studies.

Boyfriend A: A 24-year-old aluminum worker, known for his craftsmanship in making glass doors, louvers, and windows. Despite his financial instability, he has been a devoted and loving partner. He has introduced the student to his family and is well-known in their town. The couple has a history dating back to 2015, with a brief separation due to school. They reconnected in 2020 during the COVID-19 pandemic and have been together since. Although he had a moment of infidelity, he deeply regretted his actions and was forgiven. He is eager to formalize their relationship with an engagement (“knocking”) soon. His performance in bed is described as excellent.

Boyfriend B: A 29-year-old government teacher from a different town. Financially stable, he provides the student with a monthly allowance of 200-300 cedis and additional support when needed. They have been dating since April 2022. Unlike Boyfriend A, he has not yet introduced her to his family or friends, though she recently made contact with his twin sister. He is also building a storey building in a city, showcasing his ambition and stability. However, his performance in bed does not meet her expectations.

The student’s mother has expressed a strong preference for Boyfriend A, as she only knows him and believes he is the right choice. The student herself is anxious about making a decision before completing her studies to avoid potential backlash from the community, which might accuse her of abandoning a relationship after achieving academic success.

The story has generated significant attention on social media, with many weighing in on who she should choose. The student’s primary concerns are making the right choice without creating animosity and ensuring that her decision is respected by both parties.

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So I have two boyfriends and I want to settle with one couz where are we taking the world to after all. Am 22 n a level 300 student in one of the colleges of education. let’s call boyfriend one A, so A is an aluminum worker thus he makes glass doors, louvers,windows etc but he is not financially stable.A is 24 but he is trying his best and he gives my everything without thinking about it though he doesn’t have much. He has introduced me to his parents and everyone in our town knows we are dating.He has planned to marry me after I have completed and am posted and he wants to do the knocking now.i once saw a message of him cheating n I reported to his sister n asked for a break up, the guy cried n apologized so I forgave him.I have know him since 2015,we separated couz of sch n we met in 2020 during covid n have been together since.He performs excellent in bed. Let’s call boyfriend two B. So B is a government teacher who lives in a different town. who gives me 200 cedis or 300cedis as my monthly money and if it finishes and I ask he gives me some.I have known him since 2022 n we weren’t dating initially but we have been dating since April 2022.I don’t know any friend or family member of his n he keep on saying we should wait for the right time so he introduce me.Recently,he made me talk to his twinny n I have her contact now.He is 29 n he is building a storey building in one of the cities.He gives me whatever I need including cooking for me when I come to his place.His performance in bed is not encouraging to me. So guys no insults who should I choose and why and what will be the nicest way to breakup with the other one without creating hatred between us couz I don’t want anyone to curse me.I told my mom and she said she only knows A n wants only him and nobody else.I want to solve this issue before I complete sch couz my dad is taking care of my education but u know people, they will say because u completed sch u want a breakup so I need to quit with one because I don’t want to waste anyone’s time so help me 🙏🙏will be in the comment section