In a heartfelt and complicated tale of love, fidelity, and unexpected passion, a young man finds himself caught between his long-term girlfriend and a new romantic interest he met on campus. The man, who wishes to remain anonymous, shares his story of commitment, temptation, and the emotional chaos that followed an unplanned intimate encounter.
For three years, he dated a girl who valued a relationship without sex. Despite the natural urges and occasional temptations to stray, he remained loyal, driven by his deep affection for her and his commitment to keeping his promise.
“I promised to love her without pressuring her for sex, knowing she’s a good person,” he said. “Sometimes, I had the urge to cheat, but my conscience wouldn’t allow it.”
His resolve was tested when he met another woman on campus. Describing her as “very beautiful with a kind heart,” he developed a close friendship with her over the course of a month. This new girl, who was single, mistook him for being single as well. Their relationship took an unexpected turn one night when they shared a kiss.
“That kiss made everything so confusing,” he admitted. “Just yesterday, I visited her at her hostel, and we ended up having sex. I didn’t know she was a virgin.”
The realization of his actions and their implications have left him in a state of deep confusion. He finds himself with mixed feelings, torn between his love for his long-term girlfriend and the new, intense emotions he feels for the campus girl.
“I really love my girlfriend, but I’m having mixed feelings about this new girl,” he said. “I don’t want to hurt either of them.”
“I’m really confused about what to do,” he confessed. “This situation is all over me, and I don’t want to hurt anyone.”
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“I had this girl we dated for 3 years without sex but i didn’t give up on her, i kept my promise to love her even without sex knowing she’s a good person, sometimes i get the urges to cheat on her but my conscience doesn’t allow me,i met a lady on campus, very beautiful with kind heart we’ve been close for about a month now and she’s single, we mistakenly kiss one night and she think I’m single, just yesterday i visited her at her hostel and We had sex on Tuesday evening after visiting her not knowing she was a virgin, I really love my gf but l’m having a mix feeling about this new girl and I’m really confused about what to do. This is all over me, I don’t want to hurt any of em.”