A man has shared his emotional dilemma involving the mother of his children and a budding attraction to a coworker, admitting he’s torn between past promises and present desires.
The situation began five years ago when he landed a job at the municipality. Soon after, he reached out to his former partner—who was then engaged to someone else—and persuaded her to leave her fiancé and move in with him, hoping they could raise their child under one roof. He promised her marriage within a year.
However, despite their reunion and growing family—which now includes two additional children and a fourth on the way—the man has yet to make good on that marriage promise. Instead, they’ve remained in a non-marital cohabitation, or “vat and sit” arrangement.
Now, he admits his feelings have shifted. He has developed a strong emotional connection with a younger, more driven, and attractive colleague at work. Compared to his current partner, he says the new woman is more aligned with his ideals and ambitions.
As his affection for the mother of his children fades, he’s begun considering asking her to leave—despite her current pregnancy. He is contemplating whether to break the news now or wait until after she gives birth. He insists he will remain committed to providing for the children.
The confession, which has stirred strong opinions online, reflects the painful crossroads between duty and desire—especially when promises made in love are left unfulfilled.
Source: NewsandVibes.com
