Man reveals why he does not want his girlfriend to be an entrepreneur
A Nigerian lady recently shared a shocking revelation regarding the stringent rules and regulations set by her boyfriend living abroad.
This boyfriend, who happens to be of Yoruba descent and based in Germany, imposed some fairly strict guidelines on their relationship, one of them being the requirement to sever all connections with male individuals online.
The lady, known as @ashabi_chanter60 on TikTok, took to the platform to showcase a WhatsApp conversation she had with her German-based partner, whom she initially connected with on Instagram.
The video that she posted exposed the various expectations outlined by her boyfriend, shedding light on his concerns regarding her involvement in multiple side businesses and the potential interactions with other men that might come with it.
In one of the WhatsApp messages displayed in the video, the boyfriend explicitly expressed his reservations about her entrepreneurial activities and emphasized the need for complete financial transparency in their relationship.
He articulated his belief in traditional Yoruba cultural norms that dictate the man as the head of the household responsible for overseeing all financial matters, including any income generated by the woman.
Furthermore, the boyfriend made it clear that he preferred open communication and immediate addressing of any displeasure he may have, stating, “I prefer to always say immediately if I see something I don’t like. I cannot keep it inside. Do you understand?”
The video went viral on social media platforms, sparking conversations among users who found the boyfriend’s controlling and strict demands in the relationship quite alarming.
As the online community continues to engage with the story, it prompts a broader discussion on boundaries, control, and respect within romantic partnerships.
“Because from your WhatsApp, it seems like you are doing a lot of different kinds of side businesses. I am wary of that because on the one side, I don’t want my woman moving outside a lot because of her possibly interacting with males of any kind.”
“I want complete visibility over the whole finances of my woman. I believe in the Yoruba culture that our parents teach us, which is that it is the man who is the head of the household and therefore is responsible for the finances of the household. Any money the woman earns from her work she will make visible to her [husband].”
Watch the video below …
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Source: NewsandVibes.com
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