A Nigerian man has recently taken to social media to express his frustration and heartbreak after discovering that his girlfriend had been misleading him with a fake enhancement of her backside.
He is now seeking advice on how to navigate the difficult situation of ending their relationship without making it seem solely about physical attraction.
The individual shared his experience, stating that he and his girlfriend had been dating for a significant period.
Throughout their relationship, he had been oblivious to the fact that her curvaceous figure was artificially enhanced.
The revelation came during a sleepover at his home when he was confronted with the reality of her natural physique.
This shocking discovery led to a sense of betrayal and confusion for the man, prompting him to reconsider the foundation of their relationship.
“I will be straight to the point sir. She deceived me with this artificial bumbum thing all through our meeting outside stage until she came for sleepover, now my mind is no longer in the relationship after I discovered our yansh is almost same. Is that not deceit? I want to leave the relationship but I don’t want her to feel it was all about sex. How can i make her reason with me?”
Responses from social media users were varied. One commenter, Adepoju Olukemi Agbola, encouraged him to reflect on the authenticity of the relationship.
They pointed out that a connection built on deceit is unlikely to withstand any challenges, advising him to consider whether to disclose the reason for his decision.
They suggested that being honest might help her appreciate her natural beauty instead of relying on enhancements.
However, they also acknowledged that choosing not to share the reason could prevent her from feeling hurt, leaving him with the freedom he desires.
Another user, Adepeju Adeyemi, succinctly declared it a case of significant deceit and encouraged the man to move on.
Meanwhile, Bello Mohammed weighed in with the perspective that their relationship may have never been genuine, viewing it instead as a fleeting attraction based on superficial qualities.
He advised the man to enjoy the experience while it lasted.
As the man grapples with his feelings and the implications of this revelation, many online have rallied around him, offering support and insights on navigating relationships built on trust and authenticity.
Source: NewsandVibes.com