- A 23-year-old third-year student at Accra Technical University is being pursued by a 39-year-old married man with three children.
- The man proposed marriage and even suggested divorcing his wife for her, while sending her a total of 13,000 GHC in financial support for rent and household items.
- The student remains hesitant, expressing moral concerns about being involved with a married man and the impact on his family.
- She contemplates informing his wife and confiding in her own mother but has not used any of the money.
- Social media reactions largely support her moral stance, advising her to reject the man and return the funds.
A 23-year-old student at Accra Technical University finds herself in a moral dilemma after being approached by a 39-year-old married man with three children. The man boldly proposed marriage, even offering to divorce his wife for her, while sending her a total of 13,000 GHC to assist with rent and household items.
The student, who remains anonymous, shared her predicament on social media, expressing confusion and concern about the ethics of getting involved with a married man. She has yet to use any of the money and is considering reporting him to his wife and confiding in her mother.
Social media users have overwhelmingly supported her decision to maintain her moral integrity. Many urged her to reject the man’s proposal, avoid using the funds, and steer clear of the situation entirely, praising her prudence and uprightness.
Below are her post and netizens reactions:
“Hide my id please, I’m 23yrs and a student at ATU which is Accra Technical University third year but still stay with my parents, I met this man who is 39yrs,he has proposed to me but haven’t accepted him yet hmm guys can you imagine he is married with three children and he’s bold enough to tell me he wants to see my parents because he really loves me and wants me to be his wife hmm he also said he can even divorce his wife because of me but this looks so weird hmm he sent me 5000ghc to rent and he later sent me 8000ghc to buy some stuffs for the room I’m so confused I want to get to his wife and report to her and tell my mom as well,I haven’t used any of his money too Guy what should I do because I won’t be happy when I’m married and see my husband with a different lady all though I’m not dating but yet I don’t want someone’s husband please help me decide what to do .”
