Renowned relationship coach, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has urged men to be cautious about the type of women they engage with on social media.
He outlined a list of red flags that, according to him, should serve as warnings to men looking for serious relationships.
Sharing his views on Twitter, Pastor Okonkwo advised men to steer clear of women who frequently flaunt luxurious lifestyles—posting pictures from expensive hotels, vacations, or private jets—without any visible source of income or business to match.
He also cautioned against women who regularly share provocative images, arguing that such behaviour reflects a mindset that may not align with long-term commitment.
Additionally, he pointed out that women who are active on multiple prayer platforms but do not commit to a local church should raise concerns.
Other red flags he mentioned include women who constantly engage in online gossip, those who comment on posts without reading the content, and those who show extreme hostility towards men in discussions.
His post has sparked a debate online, with some agreeing with his insights while others criticise his generalisations. The discussion continues as social media users weigh in on the pastor’s perspective on digital-age relationships.
Read his full post below:
“Kinds of ladies to avoid on social media
*Those that post themselves in expensive hotels, expensive vacations, and on private jets and business class flights without any commensurate work or business.”
*Those who post nudity and vulgar pictures
*Those obsessively focused on their beauty
*Those that are on all prayer platforms but never an active member of a local church”.
*Those who comment without watching the video posted or reading the caption
*Those very busy on gossip blogs comment sections arguing about very irrelevant topics
Those who like or comment on every single post, especially on those useless handles
*The men haters/feminists that oppose every post that seems to say something positive about men.
Source: NewsandVibes.com
