Ghanaian media personality Abena Moet has found herself at the centre of a heated discussion about marriage roles after recent comments she made about her responsibilities as a wife.
The outspoken presenter, known for her candid opinions, stated that she does not believe it is her duty to cook for her husband, especially given her demanding work schedule.
Speaking on Neat FM monitored by News and Vibes, Moet explained that she juggles multiple responsibilities, including hosting radio shows, attending high-level meetings, and handling other important engagements.
According to her, after dedicating long hours to work and making significant contributions in her field, she should not be expected to return home and cook for her husband.
Her remarks have sparked a wave of reactions online, with some supporting her stance and others criticising it.
Among the responses, one particular comment from a social media user has gained widespread attention. The individual warned Moet that if her husband eventually decides to ‘step out’ of the marriage, she should not complain.
The user sarcastically suggested that if cooking is such a burden for her, the husband should consider hiring a beautiful and well-endowed woman to take on that role.
The comment has further fueled the debate on traditional gender roles in marriage, especially in the Ghanaian context, where societal expectations often place domestic responsibilities on women, regardless of their career demands.
While some netizens argue that Moet’s views are a reflection of modern-day realities where both partners should contribute equally to household duties, others believe that a wife refusing to cook for her husband could lead to tension in the home.
This controversy has once again brought to light the broader conversation about evolving gender roles, especially in marriages where both partners are professionals. While many women in the workforce advocate for shared household responsibilities, cultural expectations still play a significant role in shaping these discussions.
As the debate continues to rage on social media, Moet has not directly responded to the backlash, but it is clear that her comments have struck a chord with many. Whether or not she chooses to clarify her stance, the ongoing conversation highlights the shifting dynamics in relationships and the growing demand for balance between career aspirations and traditional marital duties.
