A Nigerian woman, who is both a pastor’s wife and a lawyer, has gone viral for boldly urging single ladies to investigate their partner’s bedroom compatibility before tying the knot.
Speaking from personal experience, she revealed she almost married a man who had an extremely small manhood—something she only found out later and considers a potential marriage-breaker. Now, she’s using her story to educate other women on what she calls “sexual sincerity in courtship.”
Raised in the Deeper Life Bible Church, she says she grew up in an environment where sex was never openly discussed, especially during women’s programs.
Despite her former pastor’s wife having multiple children, she says not a single discussion about intimacy was ever brought up in those sessions.
Drawing from her legal background, she explained that she has handled countless divorce cases where the root cause was bedroom dissatisfaction—something most couples never talked about during their courtship.
Refusing to stay silent, she’s now encouraging young women to have honest, respectful, and prayer-guided conversations about sex before marriage. She provided a list of key questions she believes should be discussed between partners, including:
- What’s your body count?
- When did you first start engaging in sexual activity?
- Do you have any history of STDs or erectile dysfunction?
- Do you enjoy sex?
- Are there any sexual practices you find off-limits?
- How often do you expect intimacy in a relationship?
- And most importantly, what’s the size of your manhood?
While she emphasized that couples don’t need to break their sexual purity boundaries, she insisted that full transparency on sexual expectations and health is critical.
Her candid message has sparked conversations online, with some praising her bravery while others remain stunned by her openness—especially coming from a pastor’s wife.
Source: NewsandVibes.com
