Marriage counsellor Charlotte Adu Poku has opened up about the emotional toll she faced following her highly publicised divorce from Apostle Solomon Oduro, shedding light on the societal pressures many divorced women endure.
Speaking during an appearance on Talklife TV on April 21, 2026, Charlotte shared that while divorce itself is challenging, the harsh judgment and stigma from society often make the experience even more painful.
Drawing from her personal journey, she explained that many women struggle not because of the end of their marriages, but because of how they are perceived afterward.
“Society makes it look as if, without a man in a woman’s life, she is nothing. When a woman divorces, it is the stigma that breaks her down—not even the divorce itself,” she said.
Charlotte recounted a particularly troubling moment when a pastor publicly criticised her under a social media post, questioning her decision and suggesting she should feel ashamed. According to her, such reactions reflect a broader mindset that unfairly targets women who choose to leave their marriages.
Despite the backlash, she emphasised that she holds no shame about her decision, insisting that walking away was necessary for her well-being and survival.
“I am not ashamed. If the reason is because I am divorced, then I bless God for my life because other women will look at me and survive,” she stated.
She further noted that some of the most intense criticism she received came from within the Christian community, particularly from certain religious leaders.
Charlotte maintained that her experience has strengthened her resolve to empower other women facing similar challenges. She encouraged them to prioritise their safety and mental health over societal expectations.
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