A 23-year-old woman, who wishes to remain anonymous on social media, is facing a dilemma in her three-year relationship with a 38-year-old man.
Despite smooth sailing in most aspects of their relationship, there’s one significant issue causing concern: the man’s reluctance to undergo a genotype test.
The woman believes that getting a genotype test is essential for their future compatibility. However, her partner refuses, citing fear of losing her as his reason.
He suspects her motives, accusing her of pressuring him because she may have someone else besides him. The woman insists this isn’t true and that she only wants clarity on their compatibility to make informed decisions about their relationship.
Feeling uncertain about their future together, the woman has set a deadline. She plans to end the relationship by the end of the year if her partner continues to refuses the genotype test.
See post and reactions:
“Please keep me Anonymous. I’m a 23 year old woman with a man of 38 I have been with this man for three years now…. Everything is going on smoothly but thus man doesn’t want go for his genetic test. He always make a statement of He afraid of losing me but I always say its for the best. He says I have someone apart from him that’s why I’m pressuring him to do this test… but thus not true. I just want to know if we are compatible to stay or compatible to move on …. I decided if by the end of this year if he doesn’t go for the test I will move on. Is that the right thing to do?”
Tham – That’s a nice idea sis cos medical is very important and let him know that For the sake of your future and kids
Archi – You aren’t wrong
Diana – Hmmm this world is full of stories You don’t like him tell him
Ebenezer – You are doing the right thing. You are exhibiting love beyond feeling. Love with so much wisdom. You are expressing love that reaches your unborn children. Remember that love is not selfish and that is what he is trying to express. Continue with your decision if after doesn’t do it. Best wishes
Dosty – It the right thing to do I think he knows something is up that’s why he’s dodging the bullet ..running a test doesn’t mean you would break up There’s a lot of options for those who ain’t compatible he’s just creating up stories to.avoid the test
Kenzy – Make sure he doesn’t go alone…you both should be present at the premises
Iz Prinz – Madam, u are very intelligent to have this thought at this age even though u are still an adult.This shows u want to protect ur family and generations to come. Am supporting you on this. Don’t be scared by him trying to blackmail you by saying that u have another guy that’s why u are asking him to go do that test. U need to know his status so that u will not waste ur precious time. If he fails to go do that test just move on and never turn ur back.
Deleted Account – Yes move on if he don’t want to do the test
Nana Opoku – Keep on convincing him.. he will give in one day.. Other hand, he could be hiding some medical information from you so keep probing for more
About The Author
