Lady rejects GHC100 birthday gift from boyfriend

In a heartfelt confession, a woman seeks advice on a troubling aspect of her six-year relationship, which has left her feeling undervalued and unappreciated.

Despite her consistent efforts to celebrate her partner’s birthday over the years, she reveals that he has only reciprocated the gesture on two occasions. This stark difference in gift-giving has caused her distress, especially when her own birthday arrived, and she received a significantly lesser gift than she had anticipated.

The woman admits to feeling hurt and disappointed by her partner’s lack of thoughtfulness, particularly considering the effort and expense she invested in his birthday gifts. She confesses to having sent back the money he gave her, unable to accept such a token gesture after years of unequal treatment.

Expressing her frustration, she highlights the imbalance in their relationship, where she is willing to go above and beyond for her partner, yet he consistently falls short when it comes to reciprocating gestures of love and appreciation.

As she grapples with her feelings, the woman seeks advice on how to navigate this challenging situation. She wonders if her diminishing love for her partner is justified and contemplates the future of their relationship, weighed down by feelings of neglect and inequality.

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” Please keep me anonymous I have been dating this guy for six years now and for this six years I have given him gifts on his birthday for four times out of the six years. He has never given me anything on my birthday but I just ignore and act like it’s fine . He celebrated his birthday this year and I got him gifts worth 500 cedis and he was very happy. My birthday also came around and can you imagine this boy only sent me 100 cedis as a birthday gift, I was really surprised but kept my cool because I was thinking maybe he might send me gifts but it never happened and I can’t stop thinking about it. I sent the money back and he asked me why I sent it, I told him I don’t need it because the thing just dey bore me. I can literally spend money on him but when it comes to me he will say he doesn’t have money. I really need your advice on what to do because as at now the love I even have for him is getting lost slowly.”