A social media user recently took to the platform to seek advice on a challenging situation in his relationship.
According to the post, the user has been dating a lady since 2016, and despite their mutual love for each other, there are significant concerns that have arisen over time.
One of the issues highlighted in the post is the lady’s use of skin bleaching creams, which has altered her natural skin tone.
The user expressed discomfort with this change and has advised his partner multiple times to discontinue the use of these products. However, his pleas have fallen on deaf ears, and the lady continues to use the creams despite his objections.
Another issue mentioned in the post is the lady’s quick temper, which the user describes as a significant concern. He expressed frustration over her tendency to become angry over trivial matters, leading to frequent arguments and tension in their relationship.
The user is now faced with a dilemma, unsure of how to proceed with the relationship.
While he deeply cares for his partner and feels a sense of ease when they are together, he harbors doubts about their compatibility for marriage.
He fears that her temperamental nature could lead to a tumultuous and unhappy marriage, ultimately affecting his well-being.
He acknowledges the potential pain of a breakup but believes it may be necessary to prevent further emotional turmoil in the future.
The post has garnered significant attention from other social media users, with many offering advice and support to the individual facing this difficult decision.
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“I need an advice I met this lady way back 2016, and we’ve been dating till date. I really love her and she loves me too. But here is the twist….She has this bleaches skin,she was having her normal skin tone when we first met,I’ve adviced her several times to stop using those creams because it really turns me off,but she always pay deaf ears to my words. The second thing is,she has this quick tempered heart,small thing biaaa then kum! w’adwa. I don’t know what to do now. I don’t want to leave her for another lady, because I feel at ease with her,but I don’t think I can marry her,if I do,I will die young because of her anger I’m very frigile,I don’t think she can make a peaceful home. I don’t want us to waste our time,sticking together and end up breaking up will be a time waste to us,especially her. Please what should I do?”
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