Man in search of girlfriend who ghosted him

A young man in Ghana is desperate for answers after his teenage girlfriend vanished without a trace. The couple, who met in school and began dating in 2022, had a tumultuous relationship marked by secrets, misunderstandings, and passion.

The young man, who broke the girl’s virginity in a hotel guest house in 2023, claims she never told him she was still in school and writing her exams. Her parents filed a complaint against him for dating a minor, leading him to flee Accra for Kumasi to avoid police questioning.

Despite the obstacles, the couple reunited in 2024, only to break up again after her little sister sent insults from her phone. They reconciled with the help of a friend, but their relationship ended abruptly when she disappeared without a trace.

The heartbroken young man has tried calling and messaging her, but her number is busy, and her social media accounts are inactive. He is appealing for help to locate her and resolve the issues between them.

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“I’m a guy and i met this girl way back in school.SRC ..we got to know each other and we started dating in 2022 till we completed shs in 2023…mind you we were still dating…in 2023 …we officially met in 2023 for some outings and stuffs …but we never had sex …i was the first to breake her virginity….she never told me that she was writing her papers again. When i found out she told me that “She Had Her Reason”. she told me was that she was going to her aunts place and she uses that opportunity to meet me…that was where i first broke her virginity…in a hotel guest house ….i also brought an iphone for her because she told me that her parents had siezed her phone because of some reasons…we met and we had our first sex and i gave her the phone ….after some weeks her parents took the phone from her and saw our messages …”

“We met again and i gave her another phone after that we had our second sex again and i exchanged my iphone with the Android i gave her because she wanted us to change take each others phone to see if we are cheating for a while…we met and we had sex and i took her phone and she took mine….after i took her phone i saw some messages which was hurtful on her phone so i asked for her to bring back my phone and take her andriod …but unfortunately i could not reach …i got a message from a police investigator that her phone has been seized by her parents and her parents have filed a complaint against me for dating a minor ….she was 17 years …the police wanted to track me so i left Accra and went to Kumasi to lay low for a while. After some months my aunt called her mom to apologise on my behalf and everything came calm. In 2024 i got back with her again because i really love her a lot and i have done so many things with her. We were talking and her liltle sis took her phone and texted insults with voice notes to me .when she saw it she broke up with me without hearing my side of the story …so i was heartbroken. After some weeks …a friend of hers texted me on ig and helped me to get back with her again …we got back together again and everything was cool between us…and before that i had to do some travel documents to study abroad but it didnt go well with me …i asked her for some money to help me but she said she is broke she would help out if she had….she later helped me out …before that we had an argument that she dosent care about me. We forgave each other and moved on …we were still in the relationship until all of a sudden she had just dissappered.”

“To this day. I called her number several times but its busy . I can’t text her on ig and watsaap …i texted her on messages and someone said it is a wrong number. I dont know what to do again because i love her a lot and we have been together for long. I dont know.”