Woman shares story on how she found love after overcoming past rejection

A woman has shared her journey from being insulted by a crush to accepting his proposal years later. The woman, who prefers to remain anonymous, opens up about the emotional turmoil that is now threatening her relationship.

Years ago, she harbored a deep crush on a man who, upon discovering her feelings, cruelly insulted her. He told her he would never consider a relationship with her, even if she were the last woman on earth, among other hurtful remarks. Despite the pain and humiliation, her feelings for him remained strong.

“I was deeply hurt by his words, but I couldn’t stop loving him,” she confessed.

Years passed, and to her surprise, the same man who once scorned her proposed. Still in love, she accepted, hoping to build a future together. She dedicated herself to the relationship, doing everything she could to make him happy. He, in turn, expressed his love for her.

However, as time went on, the memories of his past cruelty began to haunt her. The pain of his previous insults resurfaced, leading her to harbor growing resentment towards him. This internal conflict has left her confused and distressed, unsure of how to navigate her feelings and communicate her need for a break.

“I love him, but whenever I think about our past, I start to hate him more,” she admitted. “I don’t know how to tell him I want a breakup.”

She faces a challenging decision: to confront her partner about her feelings and the need for space or to continue in a relationship overshadowed by unresolved pain.

“I need to find a way to tell him how I feel,” she said, her voice filled with uncertainty. “I want to move forward, but I don’t know how to break the news to him.”

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“So years ago there was this guy I was crushing on which he later found out and insulted me telling me he would never be in a relationship if I was the only lady left on earth and a lot of hurtful stuffs. Upon all these I was still in love with him.”

“Years later,he proposed to me and I accepted it because I still loved him. I do everything for him and he loves me but it seems recently whenever I think out our past I start to hate him more. And the problem is I don’t know how to tell him I want a break up.”