Renowned preacher and televangelist, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, has sparked discussions with his perspective on marriage dynamics, suggesting that men should adopt a more patient and understanding approach by viewing their wives in a nurturing light rather than as equals in the traditional sense.
Speaking during a sermon, he explained that many marital conflicts arise because men expect their wives to think and act like them.
According to him, when a husband sees his wife as a peer, frustrations may arise due to unmet expectations.
However, if she is regarded in a more protective and guiding manner, it fosters greater patience and forgiveness.
His remarks have triggered mixed reactions across social media.
While some believe his perspective encourages men to take responsibility for their marriages with a more compassionate outlook, others find the analogy problematic, arguing that marriage should be a partnership rather than a hierarchical relationship.
Online discussions have reflected a range of opinions.
Some users believe his statement highlights the need for husbands to be more accommodating, while others question whether it diminishes the role of women in marriage.
There are also concerns about whether his stance aligns with modern relationship dynamics and biblical teachings on equality in marriage.
The discourse surrounding his message continues to grow, with many debating whether this perspective fosters a healthier marital environment or reinforces traditional gender roles.
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“Take your wife as your first daughter, not as your mate”
– Pastor Chris Oyakhilome pic.twitter.com/eFKvQhmrxp
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) March 29, 2025
Source: NewsandVibes.com