Obaa Cee, the TikToker has indicated that she stayed celibate for 12 years after her first husband divorced her because he taught her a big lesson and she didnt want a repitiion of her experience with him again.
In an appearance on the Okukuseku show monitored by News & Vibes, she explained that men generally do not like women with children as she had 2 children from her previous marriage. She said they wouldn’t want to take care of another man’s child in addition to the woman hence they will stay away.
According to her, even those once that accept single mothers will usually use and dump such women- a situation she wants to avoid.
“I stayed for 12 years without a man because I was taught a big lesson by him. Besides men don’t like women with children unless they are very serious. Because they believe they have to take care of you and the children.”
Later she met a police officer but due to certain traits she let him go until she met the love of her life- her present or second husband, who she described as the best.
she said unlike the first husband, the first husband has been the best though in the begining when she met him, she doubted his sincerity.